"Falling in love" is meeting someone and talking to them for about 2 mnths..sadly for some people it is 2-3 weeks and then "realising" how much you "love" them. A relationship usually doesn't last long that way. It just brings more complications..like getting attached too quickly, not giving each other the time and space for ones-self or to miss each other, getting a bit too obsessed..and those things can lead to jealousy and Cheat-paranoia, which also drags along a crap-load of insecurities.
Growing in love is when you are in a relationship with someone who you can't really say you love at 1st...because love is not something you can determine in such a short space of time. Growing in love is when you learn about that person you're with, you allow yourself to appreciate that person's qualities and the relationship, you give yourself time to think about the reasons why you should love person, why they deserve your love. It's obviously also going through "the fire" with them but still being patient enough to listen and working things out, and that makes the relationship more valuable..which makes your love for them go a couple bars higher..simply because you appreciate everything about that person and 50/50 fairness is
lovely.
-from Bonnie's post on a fb status
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